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the thing about "just ask a girl if you can kiss her" is there's a *universe* of difference between a subtext of "i'd really enjoy kissing you, and/but i'd also really enjoy myself regardless, no worries" and "please kiss me? oh god please say yes???", and that makes all the diff
if you're sufficiently advanced at vibing you can almost completely disregard any sort of instruction, the way an skilled improviser can literally smash a piano randomly and make music out of it. the problem is mfs are out of touch with their own feelings https://t.co/jQRAgCjQWI
“you can make every note work with every chord [...] rather than say this note is good or bad, it’s more, this note hasn’t found it’s consequence yet, or this note is in the wrong context [...] if it feels right, then it's probably fine." – @jacobcollier https://t.co/7ePxG3sv8E
you wanna be attentionmaxxing, you wanna be practising good reply game with your body language, you want to laugh together and buildup erotic tension https://t.co/g7cNvB9Zdl
But all of the fun in life - play, conversation, flirting, sex - is what you do when you’re playing *with* the rules. But that doesn’t mean you *break* the rules. You tease around them. While paying close attention. That’s the fun!! Oh my god. People don’t know how to have fun https://t.co/OCBfAUbi1l
https://t.co/PYYxKD3Z86 https://t.co/tMN36iMzvU
I used to think I was into very loud, fast, angry, heavy music because it was the most intense I could get – but Joss Stone taught me the most intense highs are contrasted by the lows the band holding the tension through the soft section is the sexiest thing I've ever seen/felt https://t.co/h8cCSJkjOc
@visakanv was thinking along these lines recently too! https://t.co/BQE1OguOPo
@visakanv and to add to the ava posts, her on the idea of "interest without motive": https://t.co/A9pV0z6vNz https://t.co/Yq8kqcASDp
