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Something just clicked for me when thinking about schools, dance, free speech, attention, attentiveness, flirting... My #1 piece of advice is ābe attentiveā And the #1 crap response I get is āI donāt wanna put in all that effort, just tell me the rules / give me the formulaā https://t.co/x7yfCVHXpn
I can't get enough of this š precious, precious energy krishna is the peak image of a lover in love, serving and tending to his beloved, without making it about conquest or ego. look at how happy and blissful she is, always tell your sons this https://t.co/oM7gnbImC1
But all of the fun in life - play, conversation, flirting, sex - is what you do when youāre playing *with* the rules. But that doesnāt mean you *break* the rules. You tease around them. While paying close attention. Thatās the fun!! Oh my god. People donāt know how to have fun https://t.co/OCBfAUbi1l
We are desperately going to need more people who are skilled at navigating these boundaries, now that technology allows everyone to talk to everyone. And weāre bad at talking https://t.co/nYFiNsIAN8
a playground analogy: we have to learn to play with other kids we don't know, and have a good time without punching anybody's teeth out. like, a bit of hurt is understandable. a bruised knee here, a bump there. nbd. but don't be kicking a kid in the stomach and call it playtime