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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

People-pleasing is a real misnomer. It should really be called “pleasing the part of you that is anxious” instead.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

bro are you trying to please her or are you trying to please some terrified-to-shit part of yourself? https://t.co/sRi7gMXhD1

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

We want to please people when we project part of our psyche onto them. When we recognise that psyche as our own, they become people again

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

bro it’s ok bro. that part 100% deserves pleasing. game on 😎 https://t.co/iC3AKMNUoo

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

People think people-pleasing is bad. But people pleasing is only a problem if you don't please yourself first. After that, pleasing other people is the best thing in the world.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

The problem with people-pleasing is we were directing the love outward instead of to ourselves.

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