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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

People think people-pleasing is bad. But people pleasing is only a problem if you don't please yourself first. After that, pleasing other people is the best thing in the world.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

Thank you for coming to my TEDx talk.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

The problem with pleasing other people before yourself is then they have to feel pleased by you, or you’re “not ok.” https://t.co/PKLYVEvp88

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Noticing an extremely common pattern across my tweets, which is that people hate it when you (subconsciously) ask them to buy into something or feel a certain way for you to be ok.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

I am one of the people to cater towards to. https://t.co/8A8v37Li79

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

@jongold What’s coming up is: “This call is also for me.” [🤯] Some internalised people-pleasing part of me didn’t realise I too am one of the people to cater to. https://t.co/6ENczNSoWP

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