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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 8 months ago

have you ever had a lifelong emotional issue one-shot by a tweet? https://t.co/e7kI56mnrN

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Ellie the Ad Man@basilYam• 8 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

@ChrisChipMonk My therapist once told me: have u tried giving less of a shit? Helped me a lot

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2/28/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 8 months ago
Replying to @basilYam

@basilYam lol tell the whole story

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2/28/2025
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runeii@dysautonomian• 8 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

I had this experience when I moved to the Midwest from the South. I was shoveling snow and worried I was "doing it wrong" and that neighbors would see me think I was an idiot. And then I realized: Hey, when it comes to plenty of things, I AM an idiot! And if I AM uneducated, it's actually BETTER that people recognize that sooner than later! If someone knows better, then they can instruct me! If I'm pretending to know things I don't, I'll miss out! It changed my life.

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2/28/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 8 months ago
Replying to @dysautonomian

@dysautonomian whoa how long ago was this? did it transfer to any other areas?

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2/28/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

related: https://t.co/Ux2HM73OlY

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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 5 months ago

a fantasy of mine is to find/create the memetic virus that makes everyone securely attached

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6/21/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

original tweet 1: https://t.co/3D7a0cn0Zm

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sarrah@AgaRosegirl• about 1 year ago

@ChrisChipMonk A lot better - I think I've also become a lot more self-secure and have realised that there's no "right" way to converse even though it can be scary, life is somewhat just about jibber-jabbering

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6/24/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

original tweet 2: https://t.co/GLFphDjBjh

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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 10 months ago

Undoing muscle tension is kinda like: 1. Notice you are tense 2. Notice where you are tense 3. Notice *you* are creating the the tension, and stop I suspect undoing mental tension is similar: 1. Notice you are tense (suffering) 2. Notice where 3. Notice *you* are doing it, and stop. (Example below) (do u agree @johnsonmxe ?) Step 3 can be hard though! See below

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6/24/2025
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L Zahir@_l_zahir• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

@ChrisChipMonk sort of, or like, a minor one: I can't find the tweet but it was like "the first rule of Online is if you get mad you lose". they don't want you to know this but it works for Offline too

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6/21/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

left tweet: https://t.co/3D7a0cn0Zm

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sarrah@AgaRosegirl• about 1 year ago

@ChrisChipMonk A lot better - I think I've also become a lot more self-secure and have realised that there's no "right" way to converse even though it can be scary, life is somewhat just about jibber-jabbering

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6/24/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

right tweet: https://t.co/GLFphDjBjh

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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 10 months ago

Undoing muscle tension is kinda like: 1. Notice you are tense 2. Notice where you are tense 3. Notice *you* are creating the the tension, and stop I suspect undoing mental tension is similar: 1. Notice you are tense (suffering) 2. Notice where 3. Notice *you* are doing it, and stop. (Example below) (do u agree @johnsonmxe ?) Step 3 can be hard though! See below

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6/24/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

related: good memetic viruses https://t.co/Ux2HM73OlY

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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 5 months ago

a fantasy of mine is to find/create the memetic virus that makes everyone securely attached

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6/24/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

I've heard rumors this tweet one-shot people https://t.co/ZNbXfxzVob

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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 7 months ago

my favorite mindset for flirting is that it’s predetermined: either you’re already compatible with the other person, or you’re already incompatible. flirting isn’t “convincing” the other person to like you, it’s *revealing*

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Curt Tigges@CurtTigges• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

@ChrisChipMonk after thinking about this one a bit more, I actually think it fits "being authentic" better than "flirting," the latter of which is a skill you can be good at at any given moment or not (and hence, it makes sense to think about whether you're putting energy into it or not)

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6/27/2025
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Curt Tigges@CurtTigges• 4 months ago
Replying to @CurtTigges

@ChrisChipMonk being authentic is still the "meat" of connection, and I think thinking about it in that predetermined way makes sense. flirting is a bit more stochastic though

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6/27/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @CurtTigges

@CurtTigges ooooh maybe I'll do a tweet about being authentic (more precisely: not being inauthentic) like this sometime, thank you!

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6/27/2025
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Max Shen@maxkshen• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

@ChrisChipMonk I actually was thinking about this, but for grant applications the other day. Either we are a decent fit or not a nice to quickly determine that

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6/27/2025
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Chris Lakin@ChrischipMonk• 4 months ago
Replying to @mxslk

@mxslk tweet this!

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6/27/2025
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Solarphunkisms@sabachtan• 4 months ago
Replying to @ChrisChipMonk

@ChrisChipMonk Suck cock dude

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7/1/2025
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Solarphunkisms@sabachtan• 4 months ago
Replying to @sabachtan

@ChrisChipMonk We aren’t going to save the world from San Fran tech bros commodifying life because the Gorgon will keep producing people like the above through academia . https://t.co/v3paxLYtup

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7/1/2025
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Solarphunkisms@sabachtan• 4 months ago
Replying to @sabachtan

@ChrisChipMonk Leave these kids alone https://t.co/geeo323Bzc

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7/1/2025