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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago

it's wild being aware of my inner child AND being in interpersonal conflict because interpersonal conflict is often when i can't get my needs met to be understood by the other person. not right then, not by them maybe not ever but it's just not… vital anymore https://t.co/fAnzqzPkP9

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 2 years ago

is this what it is called when your inner kid gets scared and your inner adult doesn't disappear? because this is fucking awesome

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

i don't need them to fully and totally understand me, to be present with myself anymore https://t.co/fWmKHL0CuD

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 2 years ago

i can accept them having a slightly less accurate idea of me because i have my own separate discernment and idea of me from there, i can just discern, what is the action i want to take? maybe it is to clarify. maybe it's just to say "Ok." and to speak from the heart

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

they don’t need to have accurate, empathetic context for me, for me to have an accurate empathetic context for me and that frees up a lot more capacity in the moment, to do what does feel right

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

adults don’t need to be perfectly understood every moment. adults just need to be workable with

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

we have a need to be understood, but that need can be distributed across time, people, others and ourselves, and certainly borne *by the person we’re in conflict with, right then*

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

the war crime post https://t.co/bTXxmV1lYZ

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

>Whoever convinced young women that the secret of a healthy relationship is deep interpersonal understanding is guilty of some kind of a war crime. https://t.co/xBaiuYkWtl https://t.co/ceKBrhA2qp

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