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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago

money is a a form of reciprocity available to you when you have no other relationship to the person. no other time, energy, context for them, not even to buy them a nice dinner

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

reciprocity is good. valuable. if i'm driving someone to the airport, the reciprocity to buy me dinner, or to just continue being my friend is important. it acknowledges the act within the relationship but when a friend tries to pay me to drive to the airport, it can feel wrong

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago
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it feels socially homeless. the way so many western urban people seem to feel treating everyone as one-time merchants or one-time prostitutes. no context, no home of a relationship for the act to live in

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

the money isn't the problem a token amount of money can itself be acknowledgement of the relationship "i acknowledge what you did for me. here, have some tobacco. have a red envelope. have some money" it can be a way of bringing balance to a relationship

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

there can holding of what the money is reciprocity money is a particular version of it. a very flexible, disembodied, intermediated one it's only when it totalises our ideas of reciprocity that we lose our way https://t.co/kSDrDMx6Yk

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 2 years ago

money is just a way to track power, goodwill, and reciprocity living in the wild isn’t free either. stuff comes from people and work money is natural enough. but what’s not natural is when power, goodwill, and reciprocity are disembodied and intermediated to an extreme https://t.co/iwlfhhiqQB

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 1 year ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

a meditative musing on money from @rachelclif i completely endorse https://t.co/U2I7z9X7Ie https://t.co/YWR7V5g1Xm

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