one of the hardest things is loving someone without trying to save them, because of the capacity it requires to grieve the pain they will probably experience
all self-abandoning stems from the lack of capacity to grieve the lack of connection at the time we needed it most
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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 2 years ago
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the version of this that circulates in my head (cc @triciapickren) is
one of the hardest things about being a parent is loving someone who will, in the course of their lifetime, inevitably grieve
