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it’s not making anyone like you, or theoretical ideas about how well you’d connect, or dismissing someone because they seem like serious type that only talks blah doesn’t matter. can you trip over one thing you actually wanna do?
honestly, a huge part of the worry is my rejection sensitivity and disappointment — if we don’t interact a certain way, what does it mean? does it mean we’re not close anymore? part of me is monitoring vigilantly but like…
the part of me that’s very closely monitoring those things isn’t having a lot of fun, and doesn’t wanna do its job anymore, and it was scared of being alone because there was no one home but i’m home a bit more, and it just wants to have fun
entering my girls just wanna have fun era https://t.co/qmgzl26UDY
ive had to sit with some uncomfortable things, like not completely understanding why some people like me so much, but learning to ignore the reasons, and not analyse the yeses n nos so much, n just sort of encounter compatibility when it arises n say yes https://t.co/xsU9HseIEK