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“Here is the one commandment. Care about your partner. Care about how they’re feeling. Keep track of what they like and don’t like. Try to keep doing the things they like; try to stop doing the things they don’t like.” https://t.co/H14OdjYLPh
“If you can do these things, your relationship will not explode. If you can’t do these things, [it will]… The relationship will be deeper and better if you have good sex, good communication, etc—but none of these can override the one commandment.” Caring.
“To accept the burden of caring about the arbitrary, capricious desires of your partner is is to infringe on your own 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘰𝘮.” Wasn’t it…? https://t.co/89AASyvYZK
merging is not necessary. in fact it is not always desirable this is the developmental ship of individuation you missed https://t.co/oSjUvJMLNa
in the chakra of love, a balance taut in the force of yourself and another person, with the beautiful ineffable between https://t.co/R5mbQopwe3
related: https://t.co/s69NAqTg7d