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your body is meant to feel like a home this is what men who have never been socialised to consider or track their own nervous system’s safety are missing you can feel safety in your body, and it can radiate outward https://t.co/VLkqAbznh6

>This is no dating technique but true health. > Yet culture has never taught men to consider their own boundaries, or consult their own needs for safety, or track their nervous system’s limits. It is no wonder that it’s hard to respect other ppl’s no’s if you don’t know your own

it still feels unsafe to be safe sometimes but it’s changing a little. life is beginning to feel lighter, in the kind of way that is not just a moment, but makes you think it could be the rest of your life https://t.co/m2rlzZHCPU


closely related: all the ways a home can feel like! https://t.co/7Gtseb6amJ