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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

your body is meant to feel like a home this is what men who have never been socialised to consider or track their own nervous system’s safety are missing you can feel safety in your body, and it can radiate outward https://t.co/VLkqAbznh6

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

>This is no dating technique but true health. > Yet culture has never taught men to consider their own boundaries, or consult their own needs for safety, or track their nervous system’s limits. It is no wonder that it’s hard to respect other ppl’s no’s if you don’t know your own

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

it still feels unsafe to be safe sometimes but it’s changing a little. life is beginning to feel lighter, in the kind of way that is not just a moment, but makes you think it could be the rest of your life https://t.co/m2rlzZHCPU

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

even today, when i’m really happy and simple, i sometimes look back at my shoulder and see if there’s something out to get me in that moment, i listen. i listen, listen, listen https://t.co/4AK38vrGOV

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

https://t.co/o0UzzjEhQv

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

how do you feel safer? by learning to set loving boundaries https://t.co/0X02dr1I88

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

closely related: all the ways a home can feel like! https://t.co/7Gtseb6amJ

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

these are all the things a home can be and you are allowed to ask people to leave if they are not serving that!!!! https://t.co/Dox0GzFN0M

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