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that’s actually codependency. especially when the parent or partner thinks it’s very bad, and they get very nervous, if there’s something you can’t tell them don’t feel safe you can tell them then you think this is bad if it ever happens
but secure people know trust is earned and given incrementally. you give people the trust, to access more of your authenticity or inner world, as you trust it will be good for you https://t.co/sgx2PXoO8v
insecure people think your partner is wrong, or not the one for you, if they can’t handle it but secure relationships aren’t about constant, neurotic disclosure. they’re actually about enjoyment of each other’s authenticity https://t.co/nAvUV8uhVI
secure relationships are not founded on constant disclosure, but on mutual delight in each other https://t.co/rRByMgLSeu
