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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

my job is to have my own world https://t.co/DN1YYkGpGy

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 3 years ago

>malcolm’s “you get to have your own world.” https://t.co/fVRCOoOeRZ

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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that’s it. inhabit my own world. while being responsive to others’

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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being in my own world. inhabiting it. not trying to figure out what function i am in others’ and playing that

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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it’s terrifying. to not be constantly monitoring others’ needs and moulding myself to that

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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to trust that i am in a different place now. i no longer need to do the monitoring thing

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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to trust- i am inside my own home. anyone who threatens me here simply gets excluded from it https://t.co/LBWBe61dMi

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 3 years ago

what are they gonna do? make my besties not like me? not gonna happen i can survive it, have everything i need. i have a concept of “enough” in the first place, which i didn’t before https://t.co/HouxBc1WaG

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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to be in my own world, while making allowances for others’ https://t.co/VHx9U6UW0n

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

from Rudyard Kipling’s poem If: If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; how do you do that?? well, this is how

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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to sit in my own world, because it matters others can sit in their own world https://t.co/UkxEedBV1h

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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codependency was a winning survival strategy, but now that i have won the game of survival, i need to change the strategy https://t.co/cgYtAxcbzW

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 3 years ago

> codependency is a survival mechanism in immigrant circles

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

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i need to be prepared to win and have won to leave behind the old strategy https://t.co/j6PfmVRZsA

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

people are simply not prepared to win, because once you win, you need an entirely different set of strategies

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