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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

i will always have multiple friend groups, who might not understand or get each other it is important to remember that no friend group is me i am an interesting, complex person, moving across friend groups https://t.co/Ovkciribnl

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Feels like I’ve been growing out of “participating in a community” (the postrat scene) to being my own nexus across many. https://t.co/yHWJfKGhjU https://t.co/DTuOfTSEfj

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

i can find friend groups that feel even closer to me but i will never find a friend group that is me because i do not exist within any friend group i exist across them i am a person

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

i am bigger than the friend group the friend group is bigger than me

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

this is not a process of iteratively finding a better and better friend group (though between kuwait → stanford → tcot, it’s certainly felt that way)

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

i will always have my more stanford friends for my more ruthless side i will always have more tcot friends for my heartful side i will have kuwait friends for the warmth and indian side

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

it’s not trying to get somewhere any longer. it’s just a process of nuancing

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3/10/2022

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

for a while, it was trying to run away, and that was good https://t.co/dn5wec6rHA

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

if i can get away from kuwait, maybe i don’t have to live this sorry life where no one cares about me if i don’t have to live a life where no one cares about me, maybe i can be happy do people care about me? yes. why? i don’t know

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3/10/2022

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

maybe i’ll still wanna “run away” and find earthers or water people or a community still unknown. who knows

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

the number of surprises left for me in life is not 0

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

predicting the future is near useless, but noticing what i want from it is invaluable

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3/10/2022

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

so relieved i don't have to choose between my preppy, disagreeable, kinda fun friends, vs my bi, gently vibey friends previously i thought i had to decide which was more like me

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3/11/2022