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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

the lesson i have not learned is 𝘪 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 if i don’t have them

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

there’s a kind of contact with reality here i’ve tweeted a bit about it here. “real” = contact with a world that doesn’t give a shit about your feelings; only skills, actually having things https://t.co/PsMSuzOZnJ

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 4 years ago

real - businesses, actually making them work - quant trading, actually making the money happen fake - being an employee - academia - consulting - anytime i guess you could “make an excuse” and get away with it - anytime someone could just think “that’s a great idea” and you win

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

masculine vs feminine wisdom (in particular, older masculine coaching vs feminine space holding) https://t.co/l3hN54ExGO

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

if masculine kindness is holding you to a higher standard of performance and telling you the external truth feminine kindness is holding you to a higher standard of dignity, and telling you emotional truths

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

ive felt this frustration many times, argh, but i can change this https://t.co/dEDxeCepR8

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 4 years ago

feels like playing with bigger and bigger conjuring tricks but idfc i don’t want to sound impressive, i want to be able win at “real” things

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

this is not to say the “fake” stuff is not real. social/emotional realities have their own realities to them. i can fly to XXX because a friend decided to help me fly there. that plane ticket is real

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

social/emotional realities are real, but they are a different kind of real than money

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

shape rotating vs wordcel (different kinds of realities) https://t.co/LvyTzXAddh

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

damn, this is what ive been trying to articulate with all this “pieces of paper felt more real” stuff ik theoretically they were correlated with actually rotating shapes (making good) in the real world, but it never felt that way to me https://t.co/4cLrgskAF0

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

feeling insulated from the real world https://t.co/UwKoOBOrey

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

“institutions and scholarships created a world where the most real thing was how they felt about you” https://t.co/BIdDIQvTi3

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

another kind of insulation https://t.co/UY500b58ZB

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

When parents yell at you about a thing, they’re alienating you from actually learning the thing.

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

specifically https://t.co/c7GfujGQok

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

“&#@* GABBLE GABBLE you LOST the thing??? how could you it was expensive???!!!” The child learns what they must fear is their parent’s reaction to the thing, not the thing itself.

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