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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago

some jokes are only harmless as long as the parties involved are too powerless to do anything in this strange sense, praising your friends overmuch can function as a sort of status regulation again not really an issue for people who aren’t interested in outsized growth

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

part of the responsibility of power is that you should no longer joke about how you would wield it irresponsibly eg “you’re fired” can be funny between colleagues of the same power, or from an intern to their boss, but almost never the other way around

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

if you want to help your friends become more powerful, be rigorous about making sure that your compliments are honest and grounded in genuine observations, accurate-as-possible reads

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

if you do this (compliment rigorously) people ACTUALLY become more powerful it might not seem like much, but it adds up people develop increasing clarity and precision about what they’re good at people actually become hotter, smarter, more effective tricky & dangerous stuff😜

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

bc most people are living in a sort of cloud of hallucination and bullshit, cultural hangovers, all sorts of vague fog I’m not claiming to be free from that, far from it but even like 5% less fog can lead to better decisions the hero’s journey is about seeing clearly thru fog

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

💡🚨fuck, this is what my book is about!!!!! 🚨 💡 I knew I was close I knew it I felt it in my stomach https://t.co/V7khYu1Oqs

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago

it’s weird that my second book, while having been thru 10 more rewrites than the first book, is still not as good in my view. there’s something like a missing password, a specific phrase that will unlock and activate the whole thing

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Your friend Myk 🌻🍉@mykolaalmost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv Pockets of fresh air in the fog we’re all stumbling through?

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Vivid Void@VividVoid_almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I'm not following do you mean like jokingly over praising your friends is actually taking them down a notch

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago
Replying to @VividVoid_

@VividVoid_ it’s keeping them where they are

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Vivid Void@VividVoid_almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I understand now that I saw your third tweet this is also a trap that couples fall into

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanvalmost 4 years ago
Replying to @VividVoid_

@VividVoid_ yea and to be fair for lots of people this is what’s nice, cosy, comfortable, pleasant I would not strip this away from anybody, that can be cruel

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