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What about body doubling makes it work? https://t.co/SGhqlDWz86 https://t.co/DhuSNk7Xp3


I’m sure it’s familiar. I never quite knew why it worked. https://t.co/cJvZHUnleL


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1. gentle encouragement, when we stutter and fail (like a baby looking to her mother when she falls, to decide to continue trying to walk) https://t.co/VN5DFJJUbT

- there is a sense of encouragement and felt safety of love e.g. when babies are learning to walk, moms can just . . . encourage the baby, and that helps whenever the baby becomes unsure, demotivated, she can just feel loved again (cf The Inner Game of Tennis)

2. a relationship with beauty, connection, love, that makes us want to be more https://t.co/VYbziKBnh0

more on this in the context of partners who call forth our best selves https://t.co/geurtEE2UI

There are many pathways to the divine. One of them is love. Another one is beauty. When we find something beautiful, we encounter something—a desire to be more. It makes other things ugly. Beauty provides a worthy context in which to be more. https://t.co/so0PBOnUOa https://t.co/ArabK3otHM


I think it's maybe a lot of the same reasons as this thread, actually. Both offer worthy contexts in which to be more. https://t.co/17i4afvhfq

For example, the relief from pain that lets us focus on other, greater things. https://t.co/FKvLzSI0as

A sort of stability. Dissolving of neuroses into emptiness as we re-emerge wanting. https://t.co/qeOlilSfeF