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I don’t mean having resistances or doubts. It mean on some high level have your system give curiosity and assent to the exploration of this. https://t.co/bch2sBVjGg

@ChanaMessinger I really, really think if you think coercion is “needed” then you’re taking coercion to means something it doesn’t have to. Coercion ≠ discomfort You don’t have to resolve all your objections, or feel 100% happy or playful or whatever. https://t.co/AIGP9YUz6H

Otherwise it becomes drama. You’re setting yourself up to do something there is no high-level consent to do. You’re there because you’re super-ego is telling you to be don’t. https://t.co/Wn43PhZO8Y

Don’t. It’s ok. You’ll be fine. Come back and develop and authentic curiousity and relationship with meditation. https://t.co/OUSWK7TsS7

Having a relationship to something with your super-ego is like being in an unhappy relationship. From the perspective of a single person, it looks like they’re better off. But in reality, the unhappy couple is 2 steps away from being a happy couple. https://t.co/94EqenWtLi


They have to disentangle and go through the pain of a break-up first. A super-ego relationship with meditation can be beneficial, I will never look down upon it, because any engagement with the dharma sows the seeds of eventual liberation.

When I psychoanalysed with my gym relationship, it was such an unhappy one based on “IF I DON’T DO THIS I WILL DIE” that I let go of it. I wanted to skip to the step where I go to the them, but I didn’t get to. https://t.co/TnrwODeEaJ

So, sharing the following (with permission) because its so perfect its basically a VIGNETTE for how inner work goes when it goes perfectly. Straddle on: First thing - a problem, in the form of a surprisingly intense emotional reaction https://t.co/4JCtj6Xas7


I got to move the single stage where I don’t have a relationship with the gym but at least don’t have an unhappy one. One year later, and now I’m spontaneously finding myself going again. https://t.co/kcjerX159d

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