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super-ego = literally stands above ego https://t.co/W6GYE4MtjD
having a hyper-developed super-ego and under-developed ego is the definition of a Rules person always looking for the right thing to do little connection with what they actually want https://t.co/aV0QXy0k23
developing a strong sense of ego in this way helps cut drama drama is the plea to have an authority see you are getting it right https://t.co/sJR9Q3vKGX
enlightenment/awakening/spirituality too can get wrapped up in this quest https://t.co/wQwKP5OY4d
do you see how in the above quoted tweet, there was no sense of self?? no sense of being able to do something because i wanted that self took me a long time to build (all of 2020) https://t.co/qGuOLSi9Qt
working off the super-ego is not playing the game it’s trying to play a different game. called the “look at me and don’t judge me please” game https://t.co/9vxCIS94Ip
When we are demurring, or apologising, or fretting—we are not playing the game. When we are anything but sunk, whole-heartedly advocating for ourselves—we are not playing the game. We are playing a different game. Called “Look at me and don’t judge me, please.” https://t.co/9HEOb0sfH5
having an ego and doing what you want is playing the game what you want ~= something you authentically want for yourself, and aren’t afraid to stick by, and say this is what you wanted, even if people judge you for it https://t.co/lIvnjmujbf
this thread ties a bunch of realisations together about needing to change https://t.co/J95WXs6bmf