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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Dignity is acting in a way where you’re not communicating, “Save me.” https://t.co/p5Vy1nPeJb

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 5 years ago

@mechanicalmonk1 @ChanaMessinger @artfulminimal @sarelbic “Hey, can I unload?” “Ok” But there is an art and skill to outing needy emotions while holding dignity and respect “Damn! I feel super intimidated by you” said the right way can be hot, while freaking out and and saying “I’m intimidated by you” now demands the other caretake

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

It doesn’t mean agreeing with your behaviour. It doesn’t mean condoning. It just means you are not asking the person subconsciously, “Save me.” https://t.co/a02Zf0Zyxa

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 5 years ago

At the same time, we fail to afford ourselves the basic dignity, that no matter how silly our thoughts, they deserve our unyielding, solemn respect , , whether we have a reason for them or not. not agreement . . just respect. https://t.co/LP0HH4cNn6

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

You can be on the floor begging, but with dignity. You can be a club owner bragging, without dignity. What dignity means is are you asking the other person to somehow validate and save you.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

We can never be saved, not truly. https://t.co/TliI3hvVvr

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

The only way to be saved is to do what you want to do. For this, one requires engagement of the senses with fabric of reality and a felt sense of enery and desire alongside an accompanying spaciousness.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

It’s when we feel what we feel and know what we know that we cannot be saved, because the concept has stopped existing.

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6/23/2021
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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

What “saving” is is the other person buying into our public face and saying, “It's ok.” https://t.co/sJR9Q3Nlyv

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

The drama is a plea to show your authority figures you ARE doing something. Can’t they see?? Gosh, I get chills writing this, feeling into the truth of how I still do this to this day. https://t.co/DXF3Itu7tX

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

But beyond drama, there is no saving, because there is no way for things to be ok or not ok. They just already are. https://t.co/IAAZafliSa

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

it’s fine, because it is https://t.co/9yRDPlobAA

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

a pointer to dignity: the meta-vibe https://t.co/1fgyQ4FYnl

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 5 years ago

@WeftOfSoul Right???!!! It’s like . . . not confidence . . . not determination . . . just simple insistence on having a good time Like giddy up boy, we have fun to have, don’t dally now Except vibing with everyone

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

This thread, compressed to one tweet, might read: When you retain high unconditional regard for yourself, it makes life easier. Dignity is just that. https://t.co/R6JaZAZZCW

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

To be part of the offending party and still have high regard for yourself doesn’t just make it easy for you—it makes it easier for them.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

I think sometimes this lack of dignity can derail therapy. https://t.co/kFmixpJDWK

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 5 years ago

@ConceptPointer It can also approached in a dilapidated, “I need to fix myself,” so many problems, aah the agony of fixing them, stressed at whether the therapist can help you with them, believing they can help you with them, etc.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

Or, indeed, a lot of change. We have to care more about ourselves independently than what they think of us to make progress. https://t.co/7ljNKA5ec4

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

We have to care more about ourselves than what anyone thinks of us.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
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Not having dignity is what generates drama, because it’s what says, “save me!!” and you can’t… you can just sort of let people be, and their actions will have the consequences that they have, and that’s ok and it’s that. https://t.co/J1msqJhaJ9

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

Acceptance does not have to have drama, nor does there have to be drama about there being drama.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

Oh . . . this is a fantastic thread, that gets at much of this with richness and simplicity. https://t.co/36GigQKqiA

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6/25/2021