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The reason is because otherwise, you are asking them to save you. Then they need to feel a certain way for you to feel ok. https://t.co/YOYbu8ZbV4
the downside is you really will feel things you are doing the heavy-lifting of actually experiencing the feeling. instead of just using words https://t.co/vLBjxQBtAV
When you say, “I am resentful towards Sydney” or “I am loving towards Sydney”, you expect the words to do the heavy-lifting So you don’t have to feel. You don’t actually feel, the resentment or loving. It lets your emotional economy or ecology be cheap. Unaffected too much.
the downside is you really will feel things you are doing the heavy-lifting of actually experiencing the feeling. instead of just using words https://t.co/vLBjxQBtAV
When you say, “I am resentful towards Sydney” or “I am loving towards Sydney”, you expect the words to do the heavy-lifting So you don’t have to feel. You don’t actually feel, the resentment or loving. It lets your emotional economy or ecology be cheap. Unaffected too much.
The reason is because otherwise, you are asking them to save you. Then they need to feel a certain way for you to feel ok. https://t.co/YOYbu8ZbV4
the downside is you really will feel things you are doing the heavy-lifting of actually experiencing the feeling. instead of just using words https://t.co/vLBjxQBtAV
When you say, “I am resentful towards Sydney” or “I am loving towards Sydney”, you expect the words to do the heavy-lifting So you don’t have to feel. You don’t actually feel, the resentment or loving. It lets your emotional economy or ecology be cheap. Unaffected too much.
the downside is you really will feel things you are doing the heavy-lifting of actually experiencing the feeling. instead of just using words https://t.co/vLBjxQBtAV
When you say, “I am resentful towards Sydney” or “I am loving towards Sydney”, you expect the words to do the heavy-lifting So you don’t have to feel. You don’t actually feel, the resentment or loving. It lets your emotional economy or ecology be cheap. Unaffected too much.