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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

[how to stay sane while dating] Part of what makes dating so mind-bogglingly difficult is I WANT TO TALK TO/ABOUT HER ALL THE TIME. And I can’t. So I feel blocked.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

That’s what hurts. It’s not the wanting, or the not replying. It’s the constriction of oneself.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

With nowhere to go, we exist in a state of perpetual unease. The fact that we are having these thoughts is not safe. We know it so . . . but why?

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

The only options are to wait, or to seduce more attractively, or to wait. Pushing more doesn’t help. https://t.co/uWiMQjWrie

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Let’s talk about push/pull energy. pushing = asking questions, directing engagement pulling = pulling back, awaiting questions to be asked Pull energy is the energy of a cat, or a hot girl. Or even a grounded man. They draw you to them, into a space.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

What is kind is to recognise—you want to talk more about this person! You’re excited—heck, they’re probably helluva awesome human being to catch your attention this way. You can be weird about it, or sincere in your desire and appreciation for this person.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

Do not be afraid to desire and appreciate.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

Please, be honest with yourself. You really do love this person [the image of them]. The image *is* lovely. You really do wish to talk so much to them, and it would *be right* for this to happen.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

And it is not happening. This is ok. It would only feel *right* if it did though.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

When we feel into the *rightness* of what we are feeling — that it is right to feel this way, that it would be right for the world to please it — then we can tolerate anything. https://t.co/RfHCjsxtA5

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

joke tweet, but no— to be sensitive to the universe is a precarious position to feel utmost care and rightness of being cared for is sanity

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

It is when we know what we know and feel what we feel that we continue to be humans, facing whatever difficulty. https://t.co/EdpfpRiaRt

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

The Emotional TRUTH of the situation. The KNOWING of my dissonance. The ALREADY EXISTING nature of my feelings. The bringing to light the POSITION I am already in, conscious or not. The disgusting FELT EXPERIENCE of the world even if it doesn’t feel right. All these make me.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

In short, dating can drives you insane, because you want to text to/about him, and you can’t, it would be too much. So you bottled up, but it felt bad. There is nothing to do but feel into the rightness of what you are feeling.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

A true & sincere admiration, for the image you have gotten to know. A true & sincere belief, that it would only be right for you to get what you want, even if it is not going to happen. Then you can be with the reality of where he is more amiably.

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6/20/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

Another way this shows up: posting on Twitter. https://t.co/FBzZtsasXc

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Maybe this feels similar to being blocked by a crush. That feeling of not being able to most past yourself. Rather than let each and every felt sense lead to the next. https://t.co/3UqGmhuwgk

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6/23/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

Letting each felt sense lead to another. Else we get stuck. https://t.co/WyGR6webH5

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Something @nosilverv said that stuck with me: The point of a thought isn’t a thought. It’s to get to the next one.

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6/23/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

> what hurts about an unrequited love is only partly that they do not love us https://t.co/Gqnlqbngrg

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 4 years ago

what hurts about an unrequited love is only partly that they do not love us. the other half is that we do not have a relationship with them in which our hearts can gift them something we sincerely want to gift them https://t.co/9MHroc4qB3 https://t.co/UJvPvXWVrn

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9/18/2021

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

im also reminded of this https://t.co/C7C8F1e328

Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 4 years ago

I think this is what happened to the guy who quit his job to find and meet Logan Paul to ask for a job, but had no answer to “ok but so what can you do” he was under the impression that the universe would reward him for his dramatic gesture and he didn’t think beyond that https://t.co/TUDXQIf8Rw

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