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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
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The reason is because otherwise, you are asking them to save you. Then they need to feel a certain way for you to feel ok. https://t.co/YOYbu8ZbV4
yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
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the downside is you really will feel things you are doing the heavy-lifting of actually experiencing the feeling. instead of just using words https://t.co/vLBjxQBtAV
yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago
When you say, “I am resentful towards Sydney” or “I am loving towards Sydney”, you expect the words to do the heavy-lifting So you don’t have to feel. You don’t actually feel, the resentment or loving. It lets your emotional economy or ecology be cheap. Unaffected too much.