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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago

I think “status regulation” is the most important concept I’ve learned in 2020

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6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

source: https://t.co/sqayv0GXJv https://t.co/O0H6njPBd7

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago

“trying to do interesting things in the future is a status violation because your current status right now determines what kinds of images you are allowed to associate with yourself” https://t.co/yLq7eVbsgm

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6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

Hypothesis: If you think of Kanye as a “status deregulator”, he makes a lot more sense. He’s willing to be wrong, to be insulted, mocked, etc in order to achieve his long-term goal of being relatively free from the constraints of other people’s status rules

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6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

You can personally find Kanye to be tacky and cringe and still indirectly benefit from the work he’s done as a public figure to expand the range of expression. He could’ve just sat on his ass and enjoyed being a comfortable wealthy person. Same is true of Elon

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6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

None of this is to handwave away from their personal failings and the costs and consequences of their actions. But the point is that more of us could each be doing our own thing to challenge the status quo. If you don’t like it you can build your own https://t.co/6AgyWZ7HIb https://t.co/O4NFz9k0r7

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 6 years ago

Everyday is a new opportunity to assign value to things, to decide what is important, what is beautiful, what is good, what is deserving. In this regard you are truly the Monarch of your life, first of your name, bla bla https://t.co/YGXHATd5Ke

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6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

Haha, status regulation, status quo. Hmmmmm

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6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/wcwTe5BXUU https://t.co/XbSeZoxt18

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7/4/2020
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Moritz Bierling IS WRITING HIS BOOK@bierlingm• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I believe it’s also due to not wanting praise for non praise worthy actions because they associate these two together in your mind. At least that’s true for me. It also doesn’t say anything if it comes from somebody who can’t accurately judge.

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7/4/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

. https://t.co/oN3GYmIbXJ

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10/20/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/XY412YeFCG

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

in fact I think realising you’re gonna die one day can be in some respects less harrowing than realising that some of the people you consider friends & loved ones are suppressing you because of their own traumas, anxieties, insecurities

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5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

we expend a lot of energy to stay in one place. we inherit this practice. it is ritualistically reinforced. we struggle to notice it even as we do it, because it’s embedded deep in the source code of everyday socialising https://t.co/WyN5s9TPZR

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

if you ever think someone isn’t creative you should look at their excuses

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/wcwTe5BXUU https://t.co/XbSeZoxt18

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7/4/2020
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Moritz Bierling IS WRITING HIS BOOK@bierlingm• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I believe it’s also due to not wanting praise for non praise worthy actions because they associate these two together in your mind. At least that’s true for me. It also doesn’t say anything if it comes from somebody who can’t accurately judge.

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7/4/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

. https://t.co/oN3GYmIbXJ

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10/20/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/XY412YeFCG

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

in fact I think realising you’re gonna die one day can be in some respects less harrowing than realising that some of the people you consider friends & loved ones are suppressing you because of their own traumas, anxieties, insecurities

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5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

we expend a lot of energy to stay in one place. we inherit this practice. it is ritualistically reinforced. we struggle to notice it even as we do it, because it’s embedded deep in the source code of everyday socialising https://t.co/WyN5s9TPZR

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

if you ever think someone isn’t creative you should look at their excuses

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

None of this is to handwave away from their personal failings and the costs and consequences of their actions. But the point is that more of us could each be doing our own thing to challenge the status quo. If you don’t like it you can build your own https://t.co/6AgyWZ7HIb https://t.co/O4NFz9k0r7

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 6 years ago

Everyday is a new opportunity to assign value to things, to decide what is important, what is beautiful, what is good, what is deserving. In this regard you are truly the Monarch of your life, first of your name, bla bla https://t.co/YGXHATd5Ke

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6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

Haha, status regulation, status quo. Hmmmmm

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6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/wcwTe5BXUU https://t.co/XbSeZoxt18

25 3
7/4/2020
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Moritz Bierling IS WRITING HIS BOOK@bierlingm• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I believe it’s also due to not wanting praise for non praise worthy actions because they associate these two together in your mind. At least that’s true for me. It also doesn’t say anything if it comes from somebody who can’t accurately judge.

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7/4/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

. https://t.co/oN3GYmIbXJ

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10/20/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/XY412YeFCG

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

in fact I think realising you’re gonna die one day can be in some respects less harrowing than realising that some of the people you consider friends & loved ones are suppressing you because of their own traumas, anxieties, insecurities

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8 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

we expend a lot of energy to stay in one place. we inherit this practice. it is ritualistically reinforced. we struggle to notice it even as we do it, because it’s embedded deep in the source code of everyday socialising https://t.co/WyN5s9TPZR

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

if you ever think someone isn’t creative you should look at their excuses

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5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/wcwTe5BXUU https://t.co/XbSeZoxt18

25 3
7/4/2020
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Moritz Bierling IS WRITING HIS BOOK@bierlingm• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I believe it’s also due to not wanting praise for non praise worthy actions because they associate these two together in your mind. At least that’s true for me. It also doesn’t say anything if it comes from somebody who can’t accurately judge.

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7/4/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

. https://t.co/oN3GYmIbXJ

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10/20/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/XY412YeFCG

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

in fact I think realising you’re gonna die one day can be in some respects less harrowing than realising that some of the people you consider friends & loved ones are suppressing you because of their own traumas, anxieties, insecurities

60 3
8 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

we expend a lot of energy to stay in one place. we inherit this practice. it is ritualistically reinforced. we struggle to notice it even as we do it, because it’s embedded deep in the source code of everyday socialising https://t.co/WyN5s9TPZR

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

if you ever think someone isn’t creative you should look at their excuses

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5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

source: https://t.co/sqayv0GXJv https://t.co/O0H6njPBd7

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago

“trying to do interesting things in the future is a status violation because your current status right now determines what kinds of images you are allowed to associate with yourself” https://t.co/yLq7eVbsgm

87 4
32 1
6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

Hypothesis: If you think of Kanye as a “status deregulator”, he makes a lot more sense. He’s willing to be wrong, to be insulted, mocked, etc in order to achieve his long-term goal of being relatively free from the constraints of other people’s status rules

155 8
6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

You can personally find Kanye to be tacky and cringe and still indirectly benefit from the work he’s done as a public figure to expand the range of expression. He could’ve just sat on his ass and enjoyed being a comfortable wealthy person. Same is true of Elon

85 3
6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

None of this is to handwave away from their personal failings and the costs and consequences of their actions. But the point is that more of us could each be doing our own thing to challenge the status quo. If you don’t like it you can build your own https://t.co/6AgyWZ7HIb https://t.co/O4NFz9k0r7

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 6 years ago

Everyday is a new opportunity to assign value to things, to decide what is important, what is beautiful, what is good, what is deserving. In this regard you are truly the Monarch of your life, first of your name, bla bla https://t.co/YGXHATd5Ke

733 167
48 0
6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

Haha, status regulation, status quo. Hmmmmm

22 0
6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/wcwTe5BXUU https://t.co/XbSeZoxt18

25 3
7/4/2020
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Moritz Bierling IS WRITING HIS BOOK@bierlingm• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I believe it’s also due to not wanting praise for non praise worthy actions because they associate these two together in your mind. At least that’s true for me. It also doesn’t say anything if it comes from somebody who can’t accurately judge.

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7/4/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

. https://t.co/oN3GYmIbXJ

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10/20/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/XY412YeFCG

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

in fact I think realising you’re gonna die one day can be in some respects less harrowing than realising that some of the people you consider friends & loved ones are suppressing you because of their own traumas, anxieties, insecurities

60 3
8 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

we expend a lot of energy to stay in one place. we inherit this practice. it is ritualistically reinforced. we struggle to notice it even as we do it, because it’s embedded deep in the source code of everyday socialising https://t.co/WyN5s9TPZR

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

if you ever think someone isn’t creative you should look at their excuses

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12 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/wcwTe5BXUU https://t.co/XbSeZoxt18

25 3
7/4/2020
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Moritz Bierling IS WRITING HIS BOOK@bierlingm• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I believe it’s also due to not wanting praise for non praise worthy actions because they associate these two together in your mind. At least that’s true for me. It also doesn’t say anything if it comes from somebody who can’t accurately judge.

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7/4/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

. https://t.co/oN3GYmIbXJ

10 0
10/20/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/XY412YeFCG

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

in fact I think realising you’re gonna die one day can be in some respects less harrowing than realising that some of the people you consider friends & loved ones are suppressing you because of their own traumas, anxieties, insecurities

60 3
8 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

we expend a lot of energy to stay in one place. we inherit this practice. it is ritualistically reinforced. we struggle to notice it even as we do it, because it’s embedded deep in the source code of everyday socialising https://t.co/WyN5s9TPZR

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

if you ever think someone isn’t creative you should look at their excuses

1.2K 221
12 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

None of this is to handwave away from their personal failings and the costs and consequences of their actions. But the point is that more of us could each be doing our own thing to challenge the status quo. If you don’t like it you can build your own https://t.co/6AgyWZ7HIb https://t.co/O4NFz9k0r7

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 6 years ago

Everyday is a new opportunity to assign value to things, to decide what is important, what is beautiful, what is good, what is deserving. In this regard you are truly the Monarch of your life, first of your name, bla bla https://t.co/YGXHATd5Ke

733 167
48 0
6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

Haha, status regulation, status quo. Hmmmmm

22 0
6/25/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/wcwTe5BXUU https://t.co/XbSeZoxt18

25 3
7/4/2020
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Moritz Bierling IS WRITING HIS BOOK@bierlingm• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I believe it’s also due to not wanting praise for non praise worthy actions because they associate these two together in your mind. At least that’s true for me. It also doesn’t say anything if it comes from somebody who can’t accurately judge.

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7/4/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

. https://t.co/oN3GYmIbXJ

10 0
10/20/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/XY412YeFCG

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

in fact I think realising you’re gonna die one day can be in some respects less harrowing than realising that some of the people you consider friends & loved ones are suppressing you because of their own traumas, anxieties, insecurities

60 3
8 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

we expend a lot of energy to stay in one place. we inherit this practice. it is ritualistically reinforced. we struggle to notice it even as we do it, because it’s embedded deep in the source code of everyday socialising https://t.co/WyN5s9TPZR

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

if you ever think someone isn’t creative you should look at their excuses

1.2K 221
12 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/wcwTe5BXUU https://t.co/XbSeZoxt18

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7/4/2020
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Moritz Bierling IS WRITING HIS BOOK@bierlingm• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv I believe it’s also due to not wanting praise for non praise worthy actions because they associate these two together in your mind. At least that’s true for me. It also doesn’t say anything if it comes from somebody who can’t accurately judge.

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7/4/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

. https://t.co/oN3GYmIbXJ

10 0
10/20/2020
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

https://t.co/XY412YeFCG

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

in fact I think realising you’re gonna die one day can be in some respects less harrowing than realising that some of the people you consider friends & loved ones are suppressing you because of their own traumas, anxieties, insecurities

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8 0
5/15/2021
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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

we expend a lot of energy to stay in one place. we inherit this practice. it is ritualistically reinforced. we struggle to notice it even as we do it, because it’s embedded deep in the source code of everyday socialising https://t.co/WyN5s9TPZR

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 4 years ago

if you ever think someone isn’t creative you should look at their excuses

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5/15/2021
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Patrick McKenzie@patio11• about 5 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

@visakanv It seems to be coming up an awful lot this year, too. :(

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6/25/2020