Every word is loaded. School, education, job, work, career, relationship, family, religion. "Happiness." Every word is loaded.
I read a comic about philosophy deliberating the nature of happiness and it never occurred to the characters to define the term precisely
Tonnes of people have really shitty conversations because they never get around to questioning their assumptions and definitions
If you don't do that, then it just become a lot of in-group posturing. Take career advice – it becomes mostly abt validating advice-givers
