Atticus@redl3tters• 10 months ago

“Why are men becoming increasingly uninterested in relationships and marriage?” Millennials are the first generation of men in human history to come of age with mass awareness of women’s sexual nature. It has led to widespread male insecurity and is a primary reason that no one is getting married or having kids anymore. We are living through the consequences of ignoring the gods’ warnings on the danger of our curiosity. Adam has taken another bite out of the apple and gained deeper awareness. Our technology has blasted open Pandora’s Box. And now there’s no going back. Through all of history -- until about 15 years ago -- the darker aspects of female sexuality were known only to a select few. There were occasional Cassanovas who cracked the code and whispered the secrets to their aristocratic brethren. You can find obscure writings from a privileged few who figured it out. But men en masse lived in relative ignorance of the female sexual instincts. Then the internet connected human brains and men started trading notes about women and now forbidden knowledge is commonplace to everyone except male democrats. We have not yet fully accounted for such a massive psychological shift over such a short period of time. Sudden awareness at scale made societal changes inevitable. But the knowledge-giving fruit didn’t leave Adam better off, it made him more self-conscious and beholden to his insecurities. It is much the same with men struggling through how to handle their newfound knowledge. And we need to figure out what to do about it quickly. 🔹🔹🔹 It’s easy to picture the redpill influencers as shadowy crack dealers lurking in the alleyways of the internet: “Hey kid, you lookin’ to understand da girls? C’mon ovah heah…” Once they’re hooked, young guys are introduced to ideas that fly in the face of their childhood conditioning to think of women as innocent princesses to be charmed. It’s not so much about your looks, these guys are told, but attitude and aura. And this makes sense as most of them have spent their early years wondering why the guys who get the girls are often not the best looking. Then it’s on to hypergamy and marriage strategies and that tracks too because who among us hasn’t heard tales of the pretty girl marrying the rich nerd. But then these young lads get into the darker shit. The depth of her appetite for domineering aggression. Cravings for brutal dominance. A secret love of violence and degradation. Just imagine the internal monologue of some poor bastard hearing this for the first time. “Wait… she likes… that!? No…” “Whips!? Chains!? Dungeons?? Why???” “R**e fantasies!?!?! Are you f’king kidding me!! Who tf is authoring this shit?” Suddenly, their concept of the average woman has transformed from a princess looking for a frog to kiss to an untamed force of nature with seismic desires lurking just beneath the surface. What are they to do with this information? Are they expected to deliver on these appetites? Could they? Next two important things happen. The first is that these fellas decide they have to find out for themselves if all this is real. Are these depictions of women’s nature accurate? Do the redpill dating strategies have an impact on their success with women? They quickly learn the answer to this question: Yes, it’s real. Yes, to some degree it “works”. The crack dealers were right about female sexuality. Holy shit. The second is that a massive number of men start to trust the redpill influencers. Girls confused the hell out of them their entire lives. No one ever told them these things. But now they have a way of understanding women that fills many gaps in their previously confused minds -- and a whole new bag of tricks to boot. As a result, they’re grateful to the handful of men who simply don’t gaf about social approval and are willing to tell them these things despite any social shaming that might come their way. So they wonder: what other wise teachings do the redpill influencers have to offer? And they go back to them to learn more. Which totally sucks because, in case you haven’t noticed, the “manosphere” isn’t great at offering a holistic vision for a good life. It has devolved into a bunch of Peter-Pan-never-gonna-grow-up teenagers patting themselves on the back for the adept powers of manipulation they leverage for cheap sex and not much else. Even worse, they reinforce each others’ habit of viewing every interaction with women through a lens of suspicion and destroy their ability to form meaningful connections in the process. Many men have been handed powerful hammers and trained to see only nails. For all their contrived, outward confidence most have become frightfully insecure as their laser focus on base impulses has convinced them to participate in a rat race they know deep down they will ultimately lose. Consequently, the lovers have gone into hiding. The poets are all dead. The idea of pursuing romantic love as one of life’s highest callings has increasingly become passe as an entire generation of men have turned to crack dealers for moral guidance. The collateral damage: relationships, kids, and families. This is a problem that needs attention and the best route to addressing it is beating the redpill influencers to the punch. Pandora’s box is not getting shut again. The internet is here. The word is out. Men are going to grow up knowing about the darker aspects of human nature that have traditionally been kept out of sight for the good of the species. The only question is: who’s gonna tell ‘em? If it’s the redpillers, we’ll get more gender wars and broken relationships. The way to rob the redpillers of their power is to beat them to the punch in giving young guys an education in women which includes acknowledging the basics of their nature so that it’s not a surprise when they inevitably hear about it from a crack dealer. Those who share the forbidden knowledge earn the right to provide guidance. Better men must shoot straight with the younger generation so they can offer a perspective that includes a greater vision than cheap hookups as ego props. People tend to feel weird about this. Who really wants to level with an 18-year-old about the driving force behind dark romance novels? The kicker is: no one can help it. We are what we are. Our nature is deeply ingrained and it’s not going anywhere. Men like nice asses in miniskirts. Women like to feel subordinate. Recognizing it makes us reality’s messenger, not its architect. But in adeptly sharing delicate messages with curious minds, we can reclaim the mic from those who have abused it and become the architects of a better culture.