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goblin waifu@goblinodds• about 1 year ago

are you married/widowed? || in retrospect, was the leadup to your relationship more like a tightrope you had to walk, or more of a situation where you both liked each other up-front enough that you could've fumbled a fair bit without actually dropping the ball?

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9/5/2024
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Sarah McManus@SarahAMcManus• about 1 year ago
Replying to @goblinodds

@goblinodds damn, those are some compelling results! hardly anybody got married via navigating initial tightrope I've told myself similar stuff - "either he likes you enough that there's space to be a little awkward, or he wasn't interested enough anyhow" but more evidence is nice!

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9/5/2024
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goblin waifu@goblinodds• about 1 year ago
Replying to @SarahAMcManus

@SarahAMcManus yeah wow this is actually a way bigger spread than i expected! also i wonder if there's any like, rose-tinted glasses effect. but i feel like ppl would be honest if it felt like the other person had to work hard to win them over and could've fumbled it badly along the way

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9/5/2024
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goblin waifu@goblinodds• about 1 year ago
Replying to @goblinodds

@SarahAMcManus or maybe it's gendered, like mostly dudes answering this and women mostly cant fumble but idk it does fit with my observations so

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9/5/2024
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Jakeup@yashkaf• about 1 year ago
Replying to @goblinodds

@goblinodds we had plenty of moments that if we posted them on Reddit a thousand morons would've told us we have to break up but every time we dropped the ball we both rushed to pick it up

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9/6/2024
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goblin waifu@goblinodds• about 1 year ago
Replying to @yashkaf

@yashkaf that does seem to be key huh, that "rushing to pick up the dropped ball" thing!

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9/7/2024
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goblin waifu@goblinodds• about 1 year ago
Replying to @goblinodds

damn yeah https://t.co/1nqE71IvRZ

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9/8/2024
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goblin waifu@goblinodds• about 1 year ago
Replying to @goblinodds

unless you're like texting someone over and over and not waiting for a response or whatever but tbh ime people who do this are not listening to anyone's advice

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9/8/2024
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goblin waifu@goblinodds• about 1 year ago
Replying to @goblinodds

actually even then, if you're texting w/o response texting more wont actually worsen your odds bc there's already zero hope

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9/8/2024