🧵 View Thread
🧵 Thread (3 tweets)

seems like 80% of everyday creepy male behaviour mostly boils down to vibe blindness, making a pass at someone you're attracted to after drastically misreading (or not even attempting to read!) how she might be thinking or feeling in that moment. skill issue honestly

just walk around a busy city and imagine the inner state of everyone you pass. you can literally just guess, make the tiniest effort to read body language and simulate another person's perspective and you'll immediately be in the upper quartile of perceptiveness

@RichDecibels Tremendously fun game when you're in a foreign city to imagine a person's situation, destination, etc by reading vibes Beginner level of the game is "who is a tourist gawking and who is in a rush to get to work", but so many levels