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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibelsโ€ข over 1 year ago

finding your people has surprisingly little to do with "who" they are and surprisingly much to do with "how" the encounter is structured

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Onion - ephemeral edgelord (58 of 100 draw things)@franki3stoneโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels Contexts are more important than the people themselves. Its about what the interactions brings out in me rather than the people involved (not that the people arnt important or valid bc they are; without them the conversations or feelings wouldnt arise in the first place)

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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibelsโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @franki3stone

@franki3stone bingo

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Defender@DefenderOfBasicโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @franki3stone

@franki3stone @RichDecibels This is mind-blowing because it implies I don't need to travel far and wide to specific hot spots necessarily, I can just create that context locally and that will bring out/cultivate the type of community I crave (which seems to be working so far!!)

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Defender@DefenderOfBasicโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @DefenderOfBasic

@franki3stone @RichDecibels I just didn't know why it was working. I was like, wow, I guess [this type of person I thought only existed in SF/NYC] were actually hiding near me all this time??

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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibelsโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

finding your people is less about who they are than how you meet them

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Roland | positive loop@positive_loopโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels Yes and the smaller part that is about "who they are" is mostly about "can they show up in a well structured encounter?"

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Elodes@ElodesNLโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels yes! but what are the good ways tho

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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibelsโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @ElodesNL

@ElodesNL depends on who you are ๐Ÿ˜…

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Forth โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ@forthrighterโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels PILING ON: soul mates aren't real there is no one perfect person for you, there are lots of people you can be compatible with, question is how you meet them, and whether you're willing to put the work into that relationship. True for dyads, true for crews, congregations, etc

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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibelsโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @forthrighter

@forthrighter ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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Elena Lake ๐ŸŒฟ@relic_radiationโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels yessss this is validating. Iโ€™m writing a date me doc and realized I felt terrible about the whole endeavor for some reason. then I added this section and now I feel excited :) https://t.co/uLpqznY99X

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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibelsโ€ข over 1 year ago
Replying to @relic_radiation

@relic_radiation sending you good not quite date vibes ๐Ÿช„

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