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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 3 years ago

most advice is tactical but most persistent problems are deep-conceptual, deep-relational blackout blinds and eye masks etc won't help you very much with your bad sleep if your real issue is that deep down in your heart of hearts you feel like you don't deserve to rest

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 3 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

random tactical "how do you open" class of dating advice won't help much if your issue is a deep-rooted mistrust of romantic relationships entirely

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• over 3 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

"smaller portions!" "calories in, calories out!" doesn't stick very well if you're an emotional eater who uses food to stave off your existential despair

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 2 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 2 years ago

@eurydicelives violence is a tactic (clausewitz: war is continuation of politics by other means). I’m less interested in your tactics than in your strategy, in your values, in your orientation, how you are relating to me. of course the tactics will reveal those things but the tactics are not it

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