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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

"""bpd""" people will go to any extent to manage their image. they'll even try to become someone who doesn't manage their image, just so they can be good in the eyes of the person they want again

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

because the thing that doesn't occur to them is—hey, if i have to try so hard to win this person’s approval, maybe it’s just not for me to hang out with them. maybe they and i aren't meant to be together

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

because they are so used to having to try hard, so disappointed by the absence of automatic and present love from someone they cared about, it’s normal. they don’t know home. for them, the struggle is the home https://t.co/9GqXDyaduG

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

it’s motherless behaviour to not know to seek home and safety

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

what would for a regular person be a matter of compatibility and of feeling disappointed becomes a matter of life-and-death and abandonment https://t.co/67tblKwvpO

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

people’s no becomes just a point of compatibility instead of a high stakes denial of needs you can just find other mutual “yes!”es https://t.co/0gskV3ohKs

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

part of them is trying to be adopted into belonging by every person they met https://t.co/ba3TR49Zrt

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

i guess that’s what trying to give your fish to people is — trying to get them to adopt your homeless inner child https://t.co/06cPu6StYo

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