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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

more and more, friendship feels like a happy accident of two people liking each other https://t.co/1DZG5ykagy

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

part of me truly thought i had to attain some degree of perfection to have friends

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

for a long time, i related to friends like i related to school: the system liked if you were perfect. if you did better, the system like you more

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

i still feel that way about dating. that i have to be perfect, and what other people are looking for is perfection

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

but friendship been easing. it feels easy and plentiful. i feel likeable and liked for no clear reason. it feels easy, natural, and not needing of reasons

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3/16/2023

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

some people just feel comfortable to be around this was a very difficult thing to make myself understand when i literally did not understand what being comfortable around anyone felt like https://t.co/RBXmp8qtHc

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

there was stressed, and slightly less stressed

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

the only thing that really helped was continuing to like myself more

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

maybe this is obvious, but it’s a lot easier to see people mostly just want me to be real and to like me when i mostly just want myself to be me and i like me https://t.co/3OR83ZKpfB

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

the more im coming to value my connection to self, the more i seem to value others’ connection to their selves

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

turns out people mostly want people to be real and to sort of like them turns out this is more obvious when i mostly just want people to be real and to like them

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3/17/2023

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• almost 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

>like a big part of my mental block is “why would ppl want to be subjected to anything less than perfection” lol https://t.co/e3wXsesktU

universe sweetheart 💓🌈💭@univrsw3th4rt• almost 2 years ago

before i started Doing Things in Public i rly had no idea how much space there is for beginners/amateurs/etc. there’s like, infinite space lmao. i just assumed that since u only see hyper-successes, that that’s all there’s opportunities for and that’s not true at all

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