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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago

Wrote a new thing. This time I'm trying to show what you are open and closed to, how much, how to modulate it, and how this has secretly been ruling your life. Enjoy! https://t.co/RRXhNKk1Bb https://t.co/XJ25fsW2vL

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1/20/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@ LessWrong people: it was never about ā€œHeuristics & Biasesā€ and it was always about your lack of grounding in your own body by being cut off from it because you’re overwhelmed because your body is excessively open to the outside.

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1/21/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

Have you noticed how all of the favourite authors of our space - Venkatesh, Nicholas Nassim Taleb, Jordan Peterson, David Chapman - are men who are preternaturally grounded in their own bodies? And how that comes across in their writing and demeanour?

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1/21/2023
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Jess@frideswyth• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@nosilverv Chicken / egg / chicken …

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1/21/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

Another corollary: teaching uptight people to relax WRONG - they need to learn how to deliberately close up to the world, so that then they can open to their own bodies, and grow from there

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1/23/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

Corollary: people who are obsessed with understanding themselves are just compensating for not having access to info coming from their body - due to being closed to it - through modelling themselves using their mind

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1/23/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

Embodied: open to one's own body Embodying X: opening the body to X

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1/23/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

You can refactor the stuff about ā€˜controlling the passions’ as managing your aperture

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1/23/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

Rats vs post-rats: haven't yet opened to body, have opened to body

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1/23/2023
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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@nosilverv ohhhh is this a recommendation for a below the neck solitude practice?

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1/23/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels smth like that yea!

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1/23/2023
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š™…š™Šš™Žš™€@jose_goncalves_• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@nosilverv What’s your take on video? Do you think video eases or makes asynchronous vining en mass more difficult?

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1/21/2023
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monk@mechanical_monk• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@nosilverv what is "vibing" as used in the post? it sounds like something specific

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1/25/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @mechanical_monk

@mechanical_monk I don't got a good "word indicator" but it feels like 'resonating at the same frequency'. "You totally get me!!"

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1/30/2023
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monk@mechanical_monk• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@nosilverv ah yeah like finding each other agreeable, same wavelength etc. ok that's how i would use it in the post it sounded a bit like it's an activity

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1/30/2023
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George@georgejrjrjr• over 2 years ago
Replying to @mechanical_monk

@mechanical_monk @nosilverv You gentlemen may be interested in the neural correlates of vibing literature. tl;dr 'getting on the same wavelength' is measurable. Search terms you want are 'interpersonal <x> synchrony', where x = gamma, skin conductance, <some others I'm forgetting> or ''.

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1/30/2023
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George@georgejrjrjr• over 2 years ago
Replying to @georgejrjrjr

@mechanical_monk @nosilverv Sadly, EEGs are expensive, cumbersome, and a hard sell at most parties, so two practical heuristics I like: 1. Simultaneity of responses to shifts in mood, e.g., laughing and/or crying at the same moment. 2. Tingles (chi) b/t people. Can be whole body, hands are esp. sensitive.

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1/30/2023
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George@georgejrjrjr• over 2 years ago
Replying to @georgejrjrjr

@mechanical_monk @nosilverv And while it can be spontaneous, it can also be induced with eye contact, open posture, synchronizing breathing, singing, HT agonists, prayer, meditation, touch, and shared activities including,(in one study), cooperative tasks *over a network*.

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1/30/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @georgejrjrjr

@georgejrjrjr @mechanical_monk 1. is exactly what dogs do! without looking at each other they turn around at the same time, or both spontaneously stop on their tracks, or start running, or what have you

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1/30/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @mechanical_monk

@mechanical_monk You can incline towards it and once you're in it "augment it", as it were

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1/30/2023
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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@nosilverv @mechanical_monk I assume you use vibing to mean something like instinctive mutual responsiveness to whatever is co-arising between us in the present. it's the verb form of intimacy

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1/30/2023
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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@nosilverv noticing that my "above the neck"-ness /uptightness is built up out of to discrete muscular contractions that switch on one at a time, eg left foot, calf, butthole, tummy, chest, throat, usually in sequence bottom to top, like pulling up back and away from something scary

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1/30/2023
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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• over 2 years ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

@nosilverv IE living in my head makes me the smallest possible target to attack, rest of the body is disidentified /irrelevant / sacrificial

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1/30/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels bru

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1/30/2023
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Guy HAS FINISHED WRITING THE BOOK (BETA)@nosilverv• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@RichDecibels top tier twit

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1/30/2023
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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• over 2 years ago
Replying to @nosilverv

@nosilverv it keeps happening

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1/30/2023