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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 4 years ago

What your child needs may not be what you needed. What they need isn’t known yet, because your child hasn’t been born yet. What they need is an adult who will be responsive. You can’t fix them the way you fixed yourself. https://t.co/2axSAOUo7x

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

That’s the thing @jessicamalonso for me to understand. *The thing they need* is the responsive adult. Beyond that, any specific structural fix, is not known. But given they are not born yet, the thing they will need is the responsive adult.

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

Same goes with relationships I guess. To actually look and see what they need in the moment. It’s like the 12th Virtue for relationships. https://t.co/6vH1Hm4Q7E

Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️@Malcolm_Ocean• almost 4 years ago

@HephaistosF @SarahAMcManus Huh, the "it needs to continually fall away in order to reveal whatever actual authenticity is" maps onto the 12th virtue. Nice. https://t.co/dNkfJ29VYB https://t.co/wgrpIGrjtO

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

you don’t know what your child will need because they haven’t been born yet

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