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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

secure attachment is not just about securely attaching to someone else 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 https://t.co/B8KoB2raT2

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

it would be an unstable sense of self. one easily disrupted by felt emotion

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

it’s hard to anchor on someone when the anchor on yourself isn’t very stable

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

it’s okay for the anchor to come off, and other people to help part of what other people who love you are there for is helping you anchor back on your self

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

in secure relationships, it’s not the job of the other person is not to stay connected to your self for you though that’s the codependent model. it’s the job of the other person to stay connected to your self for you https://t.co/zrppT6alOa

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

codependency is two people who don’t really have anchors on their selves trying to anchor on each other https://t.co/mYB9BLuj9F

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

(else you’re not real) https://t.co/pyGkdU9DBC

yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• over 2 years ago

if you suffered a formative lack of mirroring, you seek mirroring over and over again as a confirmation of your existence

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