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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• almost 3 years ago
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easy to get stuck in socialised mind, overriding your spontaneous intelligence in a bid to belong. the exit is to quit the fear of being ostracised. how? find people who will only be friends with you so long as you are honest. how? relax your defenses & see who stays

Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• over 2 years ago
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I gave someone dating advice recently: pay closer attention to your embodied experience of deciding who to reject bc it's probably oversensitive then I suggested some unlikely places she may find eligible partners (eg church) and watched every muscle in her torso tense up 🤷

Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• over 2 years ago
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