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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago

>Men with good boundaries feel safe to women because they actually are safe.

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
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>This is no dating technique but true health. > Yet culture has never taught men to consider their own boundaries, or consult their own needs for safety, or track their nervous system’s limits. It is no wonder that it’s hard to respect other ppl’s no’s if you don’t know your own

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
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>Boundaries allow you to develop a strong energy field around you that exudes self-awareness, self-care, & self-love. That energy field is magnetic and feels solid to others. Building it up iswhat allows others to be attracted to you. Your “brand,” your way of being in the world

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
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> You can’t feel confident unless you feel safe.

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
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> Women particularly seek that solidity in men because it means that you take care of yourself so she’s not obligated to

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
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>Boundaries engender trust. >Most importantly, you personally feel safe. >And safe within your boundaries, you can allow the right people close instead of seeking approval from outside.

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• almost 3 years ago
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- from Sho-Sho, coach/therapist of a friend of mine https://t.co/TvaPC32tQy

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RomeoStevens@RomeoStevens76• almost 3 years ago
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@AskYatharth People are hypersensitized to whichever version of things have been lacking for them. E.g. safety is contextual, a person unwilling to transgress boundaries is unsafe in a different way.

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