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the erotic life force is so buried, because it feel so dangerous, so chaotic to this state of affairs in this state, there is simply addiction (dependence on the system) and compensation (how you keep maintaining an external and internal state to get it)
a lot of times refactoring our relationship to our access to love will involve a period of isolation. the “dark night of the soul.” this is a time where we might be accessing intrinsic versions of love for the first time
that intrinsic life force animates us to move how we want in a feminine way, innocent way, masculine way, safe way, boyish way https://t.co/zUkOMKIiBa
this is before the child is asked to secure the resources of love in a way they cannot https://t.co/AZ44pzEpLM
for babies to grow up to be adolescents and become addicted to a system of love is part of the maturation process and then they grow out of it and find their own external and internal access to love (if they need to)
> You cannot tell another person “you are enough” until you come to know “I am enough” https://t.co/ohyz3rwfbf
addiction is vacillation between control and collapse, while exiling the truth ; which resides resides at the nexus of the bind, masked by non-agency, to keep the system bound https://t.co/5stenSCOl7