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itâs really, really, really confusing to live in a world where you have to just be able to say ânoâ to advice. âit does not apply to me, in this wayâ it requires being kind of sure in yourself. that *your sensemaking*, your intuition, is a viable way to be in the world
i didnât fucking have it. i was very successful, but thatâs because i was using my ability to optimise against goals, with someone elseâs sensemaking i am a baby when it comes to sensemaking on my own. im still building trust https://t.co/7npzwPopVF
once i realise and deeply trust my way of being is đˇđŞđ˘đŁđđŚ, i donât have to take advice as an existential threat i can say, âno! i am going to ignore you! i cannot even explain why! but it doesnât matter! this is my home. my home is my life. and i get to stay in itâ
reason is a psy-op https://t.co/Cdm6JTZC95
once my sensemaking is viable, i can incrementally improve it. radically improve it but from a position where i am living in a home; one that is viable, one that i can exclude other people (and advice) from they are here on my invitation https://t.co/KnXhhEOAQf
im not obliged to hear advice. i am viable without it. i get to exist in the naturalness of my sensemaking, trust it, and improve it, at its core rather than operate on the scaffolds of reason i built around it, estranging me from my core
itâs more robust for everyone involved https://t.co/3MAKPz9m7l