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her feelings must be taken seriously as real and hers but they must be taken as belonging to a real person someone in front of you, who you can talk to, understand, agree with, disagree https://t.co/v2DFKNl3T5
but it can be so terrifying to confront the fact that someone is scared of you bc it feels like an irrevocable stain that they are never dealt with like the feelings of a real person a real person who has feelings, but does not have sovereignty over you
everyone elseā¦ society guarantees a certain degree of protection from if youāve made it as an independent adult in society, youāve done what any other adult has: lived independently. you are now a person among people. thereās not much they have done you havenāt
to simultaneously recognise that absolutely sovereignty we have over ourselves, while being sensitive to the impact on others āĀ that is the business of life https://t.co/JYZLYczo1s
no one is good or bad ā only redeemable or irredeemable and you must always be redeemable to yourself https://t.co/ymb7ZXAKXX
"Donāt try - just Be." this gives them the respect to make sense of you however they want to and gives you the freedom to not need them make sense of it a certain way to just be that way https://t.co/MUCQx0olSq
but it can be so terrifying to confront the fact that someone is scared of you bc it feels like an irrevocable stain that you never dealt with them like the feelings of a real person a real person who has feelings, but does not have sovereignty over you
@AskYatharth hey all your tweets about "guys" feel relevant to me too especially this one :P I'm taking notes, thanks! tho I have never really fit gender roles anyway https://t.co/bKdhs9mP1f