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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 3 years ago

guys get frustrated when they don’t want to interact *at the current level of the relationship* if it doesn’t involve escalating this puts pressure on the *current vibe*

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 3 years ago
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e.g. A is texting B, who just moved back in town A and B have a comfortable texting relationship A is *only interested* in hanging out with B in person so it blocks A from asking the kind of things that someone still interested in texting with B would ask

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 3 years ago
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everything becomes about escalating it puts pressure on the vibe. something is weird, but maybe neither person can really name why

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yatharth in asheville@AskYatharth• about 3 years ago
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the secret to unpressured connection is: are you ok vibing where you are WHILE expressing openness to more?

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