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Malcolm Ocean ๎จ๐ดโโ ๏ธ@Malcolm_Oceanโข about 3 years ago
"he did something wrong" โ"no, you're scapegoating him" "no, *you're* trying to scapegoat *me*, by claiming I'm scapegoating him" โ"no, you're doing that to *me*, by claiming my calling out your scapegoating is scapegoating" รโ โรโ
Elodes@ElodesNLโข about 3 years ago
Replying to @Malcolm_Ocean
@Malcolm_Ocean these sorts of loops always get me https://t.co/ivDUIg5vsl
Elodes@ElodesNLโข almost 5 years ago
The thing that really screws me up about social rules and norms is that for every case where someone can say "can you please not do X, X makes me feel Y," someone else can say "can you please not make yourself feel Y when I do X, I'm just doing X but don't want you to feel Y"