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there’s something it feels like to get your emotional pincers onto someone else and not allow them any ground on yours bury it almost so it cannot be reached say it is in the name of good now they are under your control and both of you are unhappy
instead of two people mutually co participating in expressing their feelings in a field that hasn’t fully resolved yet, that has two human beings there is just one or zero: the predatory intelligence and the thing being controlled
it happens all the time— in circling, narcissism, and nerds learning to do the human thing it is fundamentally an exertion of control. over something that should not be controlled https://t.co/Xlve8jk9p0
it can be innocent, but that does not make in unculpable https://t.co/0S4USn1OcB https://t.co/t77ov1zoL1
