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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• about 3 years ago

there are people who broadcast a nonverbal signal that persuades your body that its safe now to unwind the tension you're usually holding

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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• about 3 years ago

Replying to @RichDecibels

I wish there were a kinda martial arts tradition for this competence

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Ray Doraisamy@forshaper• about 3 years ago

Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels Systema, from what I've seen with people who've dabbled with it.

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Ray Doraisamy@forshaper• about 3 years ago

Replying to @forshaper

@RichDecibels There is a complication in that if Alice is relaxed and Bob is tense with insecurity, Bob will find Alice threatening if Bob is primarily identifying with a zero-sum frame.

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Johnson (TC House Lisbon -Dec)@justavagrant_• about 3 years ago

Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels What are the best ways you know of to cultivate this?

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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• about 3 years ago

Replying to @justavagrant_

@JohnsonHsieh4 spend time with people who have it, then impersonate them until it comes naturally

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Johnson (TC House Lisbon -Dec)@justavagrant_• about 3 years ago

Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels Just saw this https://t.co/ftZiKl4tq1

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6/28/2022

Jess@frideswyth• about 3 years ago

Replying to @RichDecibels

@RichDecibels If you want to copy my random noticings / suggestions for being a person who other people find grounding : - go slow, have low blood pressure - be in body, be heavy - have tree roots into the ground be like a tree - slow bassy music - be certain of things or act like it

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Richard D. Bartlett@RichDecibels• about 3 years ago

Replying to @frideswyth

@frideswyth did you learn it from someone? have you got a role model you calibrate to?

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