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useful thread https://t.co/YX8bHMglSm
the core of it is https://t.co/blS9W0BUPw
Ideal Parent Figures, or any sort of healing in general, doesn’t mean you always get to magically fix situations “in the moment” sometimes the healing comes across the timeline. when you develop rays of competence that bring you onto better timelines
“Fuck this self-love. For it is yet another fire extinguisher to extinguish guilt and pay no heed to the system at all.” “Fuck this self-love. For it distracts us from devotion to self, which above all starts with survival.” https://t.co/9yV8VciEI8
interestingly, it’s *still about your feeling in the present* (the peace). but it’s just about understanding it on a deeper level “i don’t want you to just reassure me. that doesn’t make me fucking feel safe.” “i want a plan to make sure this doesn’t happen again”