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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

6. in the beginning, you can’t really just a. drop all your habits and start fresh and b. if you try, all the ugliness will spill through this can be a very cathartic therapy session, ok, but what do you do after? what actually gets you there? https://t.co/dJVymgicnQ

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

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7. if you’re doing this, this is admirable. don’t expect this spilling itself to be “attractive.” it could be, it might not be. it simply is what it is

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

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failure mode 7a: guys picks up on vulnerability, slightly tweaks their stack, tries to use stack to continuously try to get validation exception this time with vulnerability

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

failure mode 7b: guy doesn’t find attractiveness, becomes disillusioned & misogynistic, rejects everything, goes back

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

8. ok, you’re willing to accept and feel into lower layers of the stack. what do? being honest. feeling the truth and seriousness of your own pain

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

there’s a kind of seriousness with which to take your pain that you were expecting from other people but may not have realised you can give yourself *insert visa tweet with gif of your pain is valid!*

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

what i am talking about is something solemn, and writing can be the beginning of taking the shape of yourself as it exists seriously https://t.co/qep42uXNq2

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

write down the truth. write it down and keep writing and writing till it drives to crazy and through

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