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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

you don’t have to have a perfect response. you just have to respond. in some ways, searching for the perfect response is corrupting https://t.co/oXowmx92si

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

you don’t have to be the best, you just have to be

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

because it deprives the person of the chance to interact with something real instead they get to interact with your low-fidelity simulation of a person (or sense they’re not getting the full person underneath)

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

being yourself never guarantees someone will like you it does guarantee they’ll get to interact with something real https://t.co/5FohshLvN2

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

[putting my hot girl hat on] When he tries to change himself for me . . . I feel disappointed. I’m engaging with a lifeless limp now. I wanted something real. Something fun. Something challenging.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

do you believe yourself to be so unlikable no one might truly like the real you? do you believe you need everyone to like you so much to feel safety? understandable, carry on

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

but try this https://t.co/vgiATNH1ng

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

One of the most powerful pieces of advice I ever received: Allow judgment.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

in my case, i think i thought i needed to be interesting somehow i misunderstand why people might love me if i am merely dumb. what is that founded on? https://t.co/q42QwjgK50

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago

it’s almost like . . . i place them on an intellectual ladder and i place them higher than me and i get very freaked out if i don’t feel i can contribute at all because there is such a thing as higher/lower and if i don’t contribute, im absolutely not smn worth being around

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 3 years ago
Replying to @AskYatharth

i think i think i need to present people this perfect interface and that’s somehow the job of my social self instead of to be

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