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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago

Notes from my final final edit

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

learning to love yourself is not a cutesy, pretty and dainty process, it is a head-on collision with everything you separate from yourself as terrifying, shameful and grotesque

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

you are the detective and you are the crime scene

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

many people live in terror or apathy under an authoritarian regime led by a vague, limited, imperfect image of themselves

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

authoritarianism happens at many scales, it’s about the hubris of thinking that X knows best, imposing and institutionalizing rigid frames introspection is about investigating your own frames, boundaries, learning to be experimental, flexible, deliberate, thoughtful, free

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

cultivating a sense of humor is critical to punctuating the rigid solemnity of imposed frames

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

you can’t bully people into respecting other people’s autonomy, you can only bully people into becoming bullies

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

sometimes we bullshit ourselves to create a comforting fog-of-war so that we don’t have to face painful truths. it is cruel to force someone else to strip away the BS before they are ready. there’s a lot of intimacy in exploring the boundaries here, with other people, & yourself

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

(caveat: cutesy personal/private bullshit to protect oneself is VERY different than authoritarian bullshit to escape scrutiny, accountability while exploiting and harming others)

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

pedestalizing and demonizing other people are two variants of the same problem, creating a false image of someone to conveniently idolize or despise, ie dehumanize people also do this to themselves introspection is about undoing self-dehumanization https://t.co/7hlRqbCYEs

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago

many people live in terror or apathy under an authoritarian regime led by a vague, limited, imperfect image of themselves

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• almost 4 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

quite a few people are averse to doing frivolous things, but being frivolous, playful, silly, etc are some of the best defenses you have against the tyranny of your ego. There’s a reason authoritarians hate comedians. Once people laugh, they are harder to control with fear

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