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It’s not about “worrying” in advance for problems you don’t have, or not trusting your future self to get you what you want. It’s simpler than that that. It’s: “if I’m not consistently able to have my needs met, then . . . most of the time they’re not met.”
What makes me feel most loved is often not that I was helped, but that I feel like I could get help, any moment of the day, and it wouldn’t be work for them Then I feel supported and loved in all the moments interim https://t.co/hfRlugu5ID
It’s their being available. Of fulfilling the anxiety of constantly having needs. https://t.co/ygoMmNYm6d
Advanced mode is being able to relax into security even if you don’t quite know how you’ll make things happen exactly. https://t.co/4WB5cFCvU5